Robyn, Yes, I was a bit oblique in my response, but in essence it was how I did NOT control my son through some sort of force. My “secret weapon” for controlling myself to get the desired result in my son.

I guess that is what happens when it is later in the evening and the brain is a bit fuzzy. The thought rolls around in your head but sometimes never leaves the fingertips to connect with the keyboard.

But I did enjoy the post. It brought back some good memories for something I did 2+ decades ago.

I also find it interesting that I was the only response. I am reasonably sure other parents have other things in their “parenting toolbox”.